How To Win A Girl Back – 3 Simple Moves To Give You A Head Start
| It can be devastating when the girl you love decides to finish with you. But all is not necessarily lost. This article shows you three simple moves you can make to increase the odds massively in your favor in your mission to win her back. |
How to win a girl back is one of the questions that must have been asked thousands of times a day since the dawn of time. Because every girl – and every relationship – is unique, there is no ready answer that suits everyone and all situations.
But there are three simple moves on your part that you can make in almost any situation and with any girl if you really want to win her back.
1. Give her some time and space
If your girl has just finished with you then the last thing she wants is to have to deal with a barrage of phone calls and confrontations with you – and that sort of behavior on your part is going to make her even more determined to finish with you completely.
It’s going to be hard, but you have to accept that you’re not going to see or hear much of her for a while at least. But that doesn’t mean you have to allow yourself to drop out of her life completely. Let her know that, although you’re devastated by her decision, you’ll give her space and not pester her. Say you’re sorry for any fault on your part, that you respect her decision even though you’re heartbroken, and that she’s not to worry about you because you’ll get through it.
Even write her a letter if necessary just to make sure she knows this. She’ll appreciate not having to worry about that aspect. Ask her if you can remain friends and she’ll almost certainly agree. Say you’ll be there for her if she ever needs you, and suggest that you contact her again in a month or two to see if there’s anything you can possibly do for her. That leaves the door open for you once the pain has subsided.
2. Always speak highly of her to your mutual friends
Resist any temptation to slag her off to anyone. If you do this then you’ll rightly lose any chance of winning her back. Always speak fondly of her to your friends, but never ask them to pass on any of your comments. What you say will get back to your ex girlfriend somehow or other – you can be sure of that.
When she hears from those mutual friends that you’re saying how heartbroken you are from the split but how you’re determined to get on with your life, that you’ll never meet anyone else as lovely as she is, and so on, it will break down any resistance she may have had to the idea of getting back together with you.
This works especially well if she left you for someone else and that new relationship has hit the rocks. But never ask your friends what she’s doing – you’ll find out anyway.
3. Suggest a meeting, but only when it’s right to do so
Remember you promised not to contact her for a month or two? Well, when that time is up write her a letter. Always focus on her, not yourself (this applies to your relationship as a whole, as well). Ask how she is and if there’s anything you can do for her.
Say you have some interesting news or gossip that you know she’d love to hear, and that it would be great to see her over a meal or drink, or whatever she prefers. Suggest a time and place, but leave it open for her to change either. Make sure she has your telephone number and address, so she can choose whether to ring you or write. And the news or gossip better be worth it.
Make sure your letter is hand written on good quality paper. That will let her know you mean business and don’t intend taking her for granted, whether you did previously or not.
These three moves to get your ex girl back should give you a massive advantage in what may turn out to be the most important mission you undertake in your whole life.
Finally, don’t forget to download your free Guide, “3 Letter Templates That Work Like A Charm To Get Your Ex To Agree To A Date” from http://www.getbacktogetherforever.com
Philip Gegan
